Samira Wiley (Poussey Washington), Matt McGorry (John Bennett) and Dascha Polanco (Daya Diaz)
I’m almost never serious, and I’m always too serious. Too deep, too shallow. Too sensitive, too cold hearted. I’m like a collection of paradoxes.
— Ferdinand de Saussure (via wordsnquotes)
The “turnoff” “turnon” game. Ask me anything and I will answer if it is a turn off or turn on.
Finishing homework at 4am
HOW TO MAKE A CUTE DRESS OUT OF SHORTS
put shorts on
put legs in one leg hole
pull up and on to shoulder
And here we have glitterweave sporting a beautiful Sunset Yellow
NEVER forget to accessorize
well one of us is going to have to change
sometimes I get really stressed out because my body doesn’t match society’s expectations of beauty and sex appeal
and one night I was complaining about it to my sister and she said
"It’s not very punk rock to meet society’s expectations"
I think she changed my life
Your sister is my role model
So I’ve been reading a lot of articles lately about abusive relationships and emotional abusive behavior. The thing that strikes me the most is being emotionally manipulative. These are just a few signs of an emotional manipulator that I have noticed and experienced first hand.
Other signss include:
— Threatening to harm themselves or others if you try to break up with them or do something drastic with your life that they don’t approve of. Some will even go as far as actually attempting these things to get you to stay.
— They never outwardly ask for things, but will complain and put on a depressed/angry act until you give them what they want. This includes sexual activities, who am I kidding, this exclusively happens with sex a lot. They might also insult themselves and call themselves ugly and fat and “not good enough” for you until you give in and say yes.
— They never apologize for anything they do. Somehow, it is always you who owes them an apology.
The point is, no one deserves to be treated like this. Emotional manipulation is a dangerous, deadly tactic. It will make it seem like everything is all your fault and you will start to blame yourself for the wrong doings of others. You deserve to be happy….and this sure isn’t happiness.
I hate you so fucking much sometimes, it’s unreal.
Gonna get really drunk and high all by myself tonight because the world is a disgusting place.